For most who will read this, know that I am Bitch, and I am proud of that fact. I try to be the best at something that I can be. *smiling proudly*
I am not one to pussy foot around something, sugar coat it, or say the things that one might want to hear. I say things the way I see/feel them, I don’t pull any punches. An old friend use to say, I would shoot straight from the hip. I say what I mean and mean what I say. If it makes me a bitch, then I hold the title quite proudly.
I have many of acquaintances, and a few friends. Those that are close enough to me, that I call a friend, also know I have a softer side. I can be a caring , giving person. And I love helping people.. Whether it be a friend or a stranger.
However this is my rant, yes, I am entitled to one, since it’s my blog. *LOL*
I don’t mind helping anyone (actually I love to) but when I see they can’t help themselves (I mean not willing to), then I have a problem in trying to help them. I always believed to help someone they have to be willing to help themselves. If they can’t help themselves, then it becomes a lost cause.
When this becomes the case, then I tend to lose not only my willingness to help, but respect for such people.
To me it goes back to ‘hand holding’, which I am sorry, I done raised my kids, I don’t want to raise anymore.
All you have to do is take some kind of initiative. Stand up, and do something for yourself. You will soon learn that it isn’t that hard, and will make you a stronger person.
(For whom may read this, it’s not targeted to anyone, but a general in the scheme of things blog… and a personal rant of sort. *LOL*)